I’ve been based in NYC a while now and I think a lot about the ‘Carrie Bradshaw Factor’.
There is an increasing trend of individuals in the 23-34 age group (women especially), that are flocking to the city in hopes of the fantasy life of posh evenings out, gorgeous men and unique job opportunities. Instead, they are finding themselves broke, single and feeling ‘stuck in the city’. I also had fallen into that trap and found myself unhappy, frustrated and overweight. Given such, it’s important to find ways you can incorporate the city life you’re craving, without having to settle, feel added pressure or let down. Follow these fast and simple tips to amplify your city chic experience!
Date a human, not a fantasy!
Let go of some of the high standards set for the perfect partner. It’s a lot of pressure to put on the other person on a first date! This is the time to relax and have fun. Be open to the possibilities and remember that often times you don’t always know what’s best for you. You might be surprised and find more than what you thought you were looking for! Or at best, make a great new friend.
No one talks about all those late night liquid calories!
The more fun and colorful a cocktail, the more chance of racking up the pounds. Limit yourself to just one of these drinks when out on the town. Sip slowly and actually savor it. Switch to a cleaner drink, such as vodka club and alternate water in between cocktails. Also, remember why you are out! Develop a relationship with the friends you are with and potentially meeting new people, not a love affair with a daiquiri.
Become a confident, fearless go getter!
It’s easy to fall into the trap of thinking people are watching your every move. Realize that what others think of you is none of your business. Follow your gut instinct and see it through. You have to live with your decisions and it allows you to develop a better relationship with yourself. You come across as more poised and self-reliant, which will attract more positive experiences and people into your world.
Have a tip for easily being fabulous in the city? I’d love to know! Share with a comment below!